A Little About This Blog

At the start of this year, I reached a turning point — one I wasn’t sure I’d ever see again. After a long season of healing, both physically and emotionally, I finally felt strong enough to return to the kind of structure and accountability that has always grounded our marriage.

Those first few weeks were gentle — small steps, careful conversations, rebuilding what had been paused during harder times. Mostly hand spankings over his knee. On March 8th, 2025, something shifted in me. For the first time in a long while, I felt steady enough to ask for what I needed — for a return to the deeper form of accountability that has always kept our relationship honest and close. That moment was emotional for both of us, not because of what happened, but because of what it symbolized: healing, partnership, and trust restored.

Over the years, our Fridays have become our check-in days — a time to sit together, talk about the week, and make sure our hearts are aligned. It’s a rhythm that’s brought balance to our lives and kept our relationship strong. Now that our kids are older, they usually spend time with my mom on Friday evenings, giving us the quiet space to reconnect as husband and wife. 

Throughout the week Hubby and I kept a journal of misdoings. Then Friday we would discuss them. The spanking would happen whether my behavior was less than stellar or not. If I had not misbehaved then our Friday meeting would be a maintenance spanking. If I had done something wrong during the week then it would turn into a punishment lecture and punishment.  

I have written down accounts of my spankings since March 8th and plan on writing them down for a year. This blog grew out of that rhythm — a place to share the lessons, reflections, and growth that come from living with intentional love and accountability. I want to write honestly about marriage, motherhood, faith, and what it means to stay connected through the seasons of life.

I’ve learned that strength doesn’t always look like independence; sometimes, it’s the courage to lean on the person you love most and trust them to lead when you’re weary. This space is my way of celebrating that balance — the beauty of surrender, the power of trust, and the quiet grace that comes from being seen, known, and loved.

So, welcome to my little corner of the internet. If you’ve ever longed for deeper connection, or struggled to find your footing after life’s storms, I hope you’ll find something here that encourages your heart. We’re all works in progress — learning, growing, and becoming stronger, one week at a time.

I want to warn that my accounts of what happens on Fridays may have some accounts of sexual activity. If this sort of thing offends you, then please consider my other blog. Lisa’s Spanking Blog